Social Media: Mixing Business with Pleasure?

"One of the questions I hear most often when I'm teaching a social media seminar is how to balance their professional social media presence with their personal one. People ask me if they should blog and Tweet as themselves or as their business. They ask if they should mix business contacts with friends on Facebook and LinkedIn. They want to know if they can talk about their hobbies on their business profiles. Basically, they want to know the pros and cons of mixing business with pleasure in the blurry-lined landscape of social media."

Social Media is (are??) intruding in our lives more and more every day. All of these new forms of communication and interaction pose new challenges and opportunities for us to consider. Jennifer has written an interesting article exploring some of the issues that arise in this area that we all need to think about seriously before we become active in this arena. A big point to remember is, "you can't take things back!" Once you have put something out into this environment, you have lost all control over it.

In my own experience, I find I am mixing business and social more and more on the web, but I tend to be a pretty private person anyway, and I am very cautious about the personal things that I post. Even so, this information, especially over some time, can become quite revealing, and you can inadvertently tell people things that you might not always be comfortable with.

One suggestion that I might make to newcomers to this field is to do some "lurking" before you become active. What this refers to is the practice of hanging around and reading what other people are saying without participating yourself. There are many forums on the web where this practice is really frowned upon and discouraged, but the newer forms of the social media are so wide open that I have not seen that same sort of attitude expressed. What it does for you is it gives you a chance to see what other people are doing so you can form your own impression of what is appropriate and comfortable for you before you commit yourself. When you see the material that other people are putting up on the web, I guarantee you will have a personal reaction to what you see. This reaction will help to inform you about your personal comfort zone, and you can use that information to guide your own participation.

As Jennifer's piece makes clear, it has to be a personal choice for each of us to determine the correct balance between these different interests. My own decision is to continue as I have been doing, but always remember that there is no private conversation taking place here and anything that I say can be seen by anyone else on the web, today or tomorrow, into the indefinite future! If you are not comfortable thinking about that prospect when you get ready to post something, don't post it! I want to err on the side of caution at all times.

Keyword-Driven Marketing for B2B

"Understanding what your customers want – and how they express that need – is the foundation of effective marketing, ..."

We all know that keywords are the most important element in ranking that generates traffic to your web site, but the trick is understanding how to make them work for you. The quote above makes the point well, that you have to understand how your prospective customers express themselves in order to be successful.

This author is telling his audience that keywords are important to B2B (business to business) marketing just as in B2C (business to consumer) marketing. He also has a good list of points included in his article.

• Use Keyword-Driven Marketing to truly understand the language of your customer.
• Understand user intent and provide an entry point as early in the buying cycle as possible.
• Develop integrated search marketing strategies to maximize return on investment.
• Provide compelling experiences – not just content.
• Test, test, and test again. Then, test, test and test again…

While these points are good, it is disappointing that there is no more detail provided to help one understand what these guidelines mean in practice.

I would elaborate on his points in this way.

It is crucial that you, as the marketer, understand what keyword phrases the prospect is like to use and what that choice of words indicates about his frame of mind at the time of the search. Specific terms pertaining to the product or service should never be overlooked in keyword marketing, but often the searcher is looking for information to understand a problem better or to get ideas for solutions. This orientation will lead to a different choice of keyword phrases for the search that must be anticipated.

As the author says, particularly in B2B marketing, it is important to enter the relationship with the prospect as early in the buying cycle as possible. With B2b, the cycle is likely to be longer, and the purpose of the marketing is to get into consideration before the purchasing decision begins to be made. Using your web site to convey your knowledge and understanding of the searchers' needs, and the professionalism to assist with them is the goal.

Applying the points described in the preceding paragraph is the strategic consideration. Creating compelling experiences means that you have to engage the interest of the prospect. Providing useful information in understandable form is the challenge.

Finally, testing is always important. One of the things that I liked about the website StartBreakingFree that I recommended in my previous post is the way Brian describes his testing efforts in great detail. It is through testing that you can discover which of various alternative approaches to your market will prove to be the most effective for you.

Start Your Own Web Business

"It’s always pays to get around like minded people and see what you can learn."

Brian Armstrong is an Internet entrepreneur who maintains an interesting blog that is worth visiting. He has spoken in our clinic int he past and has been invited to return for another session, but, unfortunately for us, he has since moved to Argentina!

His blog is called StartBreakingFree, and it is all about his effort to become independent via his Internet activities. If you are interested in starting a business on the web, you might find a lot of interesting ideas on his site.

I was initially attracted to Brian's blog because he published a series documenting his thirty day effort to increase traffic to his web site. This was a great series because you could follow his thought process day-by-day as he tried different strategies to boost his performance and reported back on whether they worked or not! You can take a look at the "build traffic, get more subscribers, and sell books" strategy series to see if there are ideas that might be helpful to you in your own efforts to improve.

Brian continues to post his experiments on his site, as well as references to other people who are doing interesting things on the web. His site is a great resource for researching topics about internet marketing. When he comes back to the US for a visit, I hope we can get him in to tell us some of his adventures directly.

Beware of spam!

I have just received a particularly insidious scam that is going around now. It is described further in the attached link:

http://www.consumerfraudreporting.org/phishing_Tagged_dot_com.php

What this thing does is send messages to everyone that you have ever emailed, inviting them to look at photos from you. I received one from a friend, and the inclination is to say, "How nice that they sent me this!" Below the invitation is a message saying "Please respond or Nancy may think you said no :(", using your friends name. The idea is to make you feel guilty if you don't respond! That is a big tipoff.

I have only gotten a couple of these, but my wife has gotten more recently, and a friend last night at dinner told me about receiving one (that he did not respond to!)

Be very careful about responding to anything that you did not expect to receive, even from people that you know. If the message makes you feel guilty, be extra careful!

My reaction to this message was just what the scammer wanted me to think, "Oh, this is from a friend, it must be okay." Fortunately (maybe because another friend had just mentioned this to me a few hours before), I paused and thought about it further. I had never heard of this site that I got the message from, so I opened another window and googled it, where I found the link above. Everything was pretty clear after that.

I sent a message to my friend (her real email) telling her what I thought had happened to her and got an immediate response saying, "Yes, that is exactly what happened, and she now was working frantically to try to undo the damage". Unfortunately, it is pretty hard to undo! Anyone who received it and opened it has already spread it further! In addition to that, it is pretty hard to send an email to everyone in your own address book. I am trying now, and there are so many bad addresses accumulated in the book that I am having a lot of trouble sending a legitimate message to all the good addresses!!

Always be suspicious and use caution before responding to mail that you weren't expecting. These things are playing on natural responses and on a moment's inattention on your part. Believe me, if you get tricked into responding, you will feel terrible as sooon as you realize it, but it is too late at that point!